What Does Healed/Unhealed Masculine & Feminine Energy Look Like?

Many Masculine energies and their Divine Counterpart's ask me what healed Masculine/Feminine energy looks like. Great question!!

Wounded Masculine Energy Traits:

-Ungrounded energy

-Always chasing the next high (sex, drugs, new friend groups, riskier activity, etc.)

-Hypersexual energy

-Inability to be vulnerable and emotionally available

-Unable to consistently communicate with loved ones (avoidant traits)

-Focus on themselves first and foremost

-Limited or no Spirituality, belief in a higher power

-Fear or refusal to commit to a relationship and/or higher calling

-Insensitive to feminine energy

-Lacks compassion & empathy

-Comes from a pace of Ego (appearance, status, money, popularity, mainstream "fitting in")

-Hyper focused on Career above intimate relationships

-Loves only with Conditions

-Lacks forgiveness

-Overly Logical

Healed Masculine Energy Traits:

-Has deep meaning in their mission work/connection to Source

-Grounded energy/safety in their presence

-Balanced Sexual energy

-Able to open up about how they feel, knows vulnerability is not a sign of weakness

-Demonstrates consistency/follow through when communicating

-Leads with integrity & compassion for all

-Aware & present with feminine energy (both their own and outside energies)

-Advocate for others who need help and are in unjust situations

-Are willing, able and excited to work as a TEAM (Together, Earth, Ascends, Magically).

-Has a healthy understanding of Ego and has no judgment for the ways others express themselves

-Healthy balance when it comes to work/Intimate relationships

-Loves everyone Unconditionally

-Is able to easily forgive and move forward

-Balanced in Logical & Emotional thinking

Wounded Feminine Energy Traits:

-Obsession with love, being accepted by others

-Overshares without knowing someone's true motives

-Little to no boundaries

-Expects others to take care of them, meet their needs

-Unfocused, scattered & unstable (overly emotional)

-Impatient, tense, demanding, anxious

-Self-worth tied into the achievements of others instead of oneself

-Feeling constantly responsible for others wellbeing, happiness& mental state

-A Savior complex, thinking others need you in order to be happy or the best versions of themselves

-Comes from a pace of Ego (appearance, status, money, popularity, mainstream "fitting in")

-Loves with condition

-Not in tune with their Soul Mission in this life & anchored into Spirituality

-Not tapped into your own sensuality/sexuality (feeling disconnected or inhibited by this)

Healed Feminine Energy Traits:

-Allowing love, relationships to be cultivated freely and independently without your interference or control

-Is able to meet their own needs (emotionally, financially, etc.)

-Shares personal information when they feel safety within a connection

-Has clear and concise boundaries that they are not afraid to speak

-Focused and stable in their emotions & logical thinking

-Patient, relaxed, able to state their needs calmly without manipulation

-Knows their own worth, independent of anyone else

-Does not feel responsible for others' problems, emotional state

-Knows others are capable of "saving" themselves

-Has a healthy understanding of Ego and has no judgment for the ways others express themselves

-Loves everyone Unconditionally

-Anchored into their Spirituality & Soul Mission

-Understands their own sexual needs, wants & desires and holds no shame around that

I am sure there is more I can add and will update as I think of more...let me know in the comments what you would add!! We are ALL healing, and these are deeply held imbalances we have been taught since we were children, be patient with yourself as you heal. We got this!

Much Love,

Kristina